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3 Aug: Only a semi holiday because I still have to teach at the electric company, but we have 3 days off from the hagwon. Day one was yesterday, and I finally went to Kyongpo Beach by myself. I like to do things with other people, but sometimes I'd rather just be by myself (if you can call it "by myself" on a crowded beach), and do what I want when I want rather than going along with other people's ideas. So I had a really good time. I walked from one end of the beach to the other, and looked at everything that was going on. Of course I had no idea what most of it was, for lack of a translator. Guess I can't have it both ways. I should take Janet (the 11 year old daughter of my friend and co-worker, Mrs. Lee). She'll want to look at all this stuff, and she can tell me about it, too. I watched the hang gliders for while. That looks like fun -- I might have to try it one of these days. Then I watched the speed boats and banana boats. I've done the speed boats, but the banana boats look like more fun. They're banana shaped inflatable things that are pulled by a speed boat, and the people seem to fall off more often than not. I spent quite a bit of time watching the bungee jumpers. They climb way up this tower, then a guy hooks them up, and they jump off. The bungee cord only goes about halfway down, and then it's gradually lowered so they end up in the sea. That would terrify me -- the first jump especially. I expect after the first bounce it wouldn't be so bad, but actually jumping off and trusting the cord to work ... It was interesting to watch them. Surprisingly, while I was watching, it was mostly girls jumping. There's a big difference between the girls and the boys. The boys don't take too long, and go down with a "weeeeee" sort of a yell. The girls stand on the edge, then start to back out, then try again, then start to back out, and keep this up until finally they're ready to take the plunge. The guy at the top tells everyone to hold their arms over their heads with their hands in fists, but it didn't last long with most of the girls. They covered their faces instead, and a lot of them screamed the whole way down. A few girls took it better, but not many. Does this mean the guys were braver because they weren't scared, or were the girls braver because they went down even though they were scared? There were other things to see, too. As I said before, there were stages set up, and things happening at some of them. I'm not sure what, in some cases, because it was mostly in Korean. One area was set up to look like Polynesia or Hawaii, and had a line of guys taking turns shooting arrows. The arrows were suction-cup tipped, and they shot at a spinning target, and apparently if the arrow stuck to one of the segments, the archer won that prize. Just little things, like ice cream, as far as I could tell, but most of the arrows didn't stick to the target at all. I don't know if this was just open to the boys, or if it's the sort of thing girls in Korea just don't do. Something that was for the girls was the "beach mud festival." I saw one woman lying down and getting her face spread with mud, and although I didn't see anyone in it, they also had a mud pit set up. Lipton seems to be trying to break into the Korean market. I've mentioned that a lot of the beach umbrellas advertise Lipton, and there were probably a dozen young people with tanks strapped to their backs walking around giving people free cups of Lipton Iced Tea. Of course I swam while I was there, several times in between walking up and down the beach, and took some time looking for shells. The ocean was cooperating with the festivities. There are lots more shells now than during the off season, and more variety. I had another adventure with Annie and her friend last night. Annie called up and asked if I would go out for coffee with her and a friend, and it turned out to be the same man as before. I didn't catch his name then. This time I got it as Kim P-something Bin. Apparently he has an auto repair shop. He brought along another man (who actually looked like a mechanic), and he was driving an exotic sports car that he said cost 300,000,000 won used. That's right, over US$270,000. No mistake in the zeros. It was a strange experience riding in the car. Apparently where this car was made they drive on the left side of the road, so the steering wheel was on the right-hand side of the car. The mechanic-looking guy was driving, and Annie and I were in the back seat, and every time her friend, Mr. Kim, turned around to talk to us, I kept feeling like he should be watching the road. Even though I could see the steering wheel in the other guy's hand, I couldn't get over the feeling that it was Mr. Kim driving. The plan was to go to Kyongpo for coffee, but we went past Kyongpo and kept driving for quite a while. I kept reminding myself that as long as Annie was with me I didn't need to worry. If I had been alone with these two guys, though, driving who-knew-where, I would have been very nervous. As it was, we went out toward the mountain and had coffee there. The whole point of the excursion was apparently to ask if I would give Mr. Kim private lessons, and I gave my usual answer that I would be happy to, but he would first have to clear it with the institute's director, Mrs. Kim (no relation), since my contract specifies that I can't work anyplace else without permission. Annie was pretty funny. "But what if Mr. Kim and Annie and Margaret can keep a secret?" she asked. I stuck with my position that it wouldn't be right. So far when people have done this it's stopped there. I don't know if they're not calling, or if they're calling and Mrs. Kim is saying no. I suspect that they're just not calling.
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4 Aug: I had dinner out with the electric company class last night. Almost everybody was there, so there were 9 of us altogether. We went to a traditional Korean restaurant. Young told me that there would be so much food that the table legs would break, and he wasn't exaggerating very much. There was so much food that there was hardly room for it on the tables. There were several things I've had before, and several that I hadn't, including jellyfish (which was pretty good). We had Soju with dinner. I managed to make a half a shot of soju last me, but I'd say we went through about 3 bottles total. Soju bottles are the size of American beer bottles, and the stuff isn't tremendously strong -- about 20-25% alcohol. But it does seem to pack a real kick. Despite the fact that some of the men were definitely feeling the effects, we went out to a bar after dinner. The bar was really nice, furnished like a cafe. That means easy chairs and sofas, so it was very comfortable. We pulled together a couple of tables and gathered our easy chairs around, and as if we hadn't just finished a huge meal, they ordered tons of food with their pitchers of beer. They ate most of it, too. Seagull said they always get hungry when they drink. I got to talk to almost everybody, although the women didn't talk much. They feel about their English the way I feel about my Korean -- I know so little that I'm better off not trying. Seagull was pretty looped, and kept monopolizing the conversation. Not in a bad way, but the others had a hard time joining in sometimes. Seagull is into philosophy, and that's what he was talking about. Every now and then someone would complain that the topic was too hard, and would try to change the subject, and the next thing we knew, Seagull had digressed back into philosophy. It was really pretty funny. I did get to know the men a little better. The majors they had in college aren't what you might expect for their jobs. Young majored in electrical engineering, and they joked about him being an expert. The rest had studied things like Chinese literature, English literature, and German literature. Some majored in business management. Seagull's major was in that field, although you wouldn't know it to talk to him. He went to a Jesuit university. Do they always put an emphasis on philosophy, or is that just his interest? It was interesting watching the drinking customs. They had pitchers of beer (I had a bottle of Coke). I'd read in several places that when drinking alcohol, it's rude to pour your own drink; and when pouring a drink for someone, you should always pour with your right hand, and support your right arm with your left hand. I saw both of these in action. A rather old-fashioned custom, that Randy says isn't done in Seoul, is sharing glasses. The whole drinking culture in Korea is to promote close relationships. Randy used the word intimacy, which is correct if you ignore the sexual connotations that come with the word these days. To show or increase intimacy with someone, you polish off your drink, hand them the empty glass, and fill it for them. Then when they polish it off, they hand it to someone (either the same person or another) and fill it for them. As the evening wore on and people got less inclined to chug, you could see filled glasses accumulating in front of some people. And if someone wanted a drink and there was a full unclaimed glass sitting around, they would drink it. Seagull was under the impression that his pronunciation improved with drinking. Now, I have seen this happen with students in the past, but not in his case. He didn't get significantly worse (which is pretty amazing), but I think he just doesn't realize how good his pronunciation is normally. We stayed at the bar till about eleven, and I'd say they went through 5 or 6 pitchers of beer in that time. Devil Woman was smart. After she'd had enough, any time someone offered her more, she would just rattle her car keys at them.That caused lots of jokes about them being hotel room keys, but they didn't push her to drink any more. I'll admit that I was a little concerned about going home. I had ridden there with Young and Seagull, and was trying to come up with a polite way to suggest that I walk home. It turned out not to be a problem, though. When we left the bar, the women went one direction (presumably home), most of the men were going to hit up another bar, and Randy, who seemed pretty sober, offered to walk me home. I can't imagine those guys drinking more after all they had, but apparently that's the way it's done here. Randy said bar hopping is standard. You go to one bar and have beer, go to another and have something else, go to another for something else, and so on. I told everybody I was going to take attendance in class today, and they all laughed and assured me that they'd be there. Ha! I had two students today, Devil Woman and Dorothy. All the men were too hung over. Well, Young knows where I live now. He called today and said he'd like to come over since he had some work to do in this neighborhood anyhow. I went down to the street to meet him as usual, and he said point blank that he'd like to see my apartment. There wasn't any graceful way to refuse, so I had him in for some tea. It's not that I have anything against him, or don't like him, and he's always a perfect gentleman. But the way he calls all the time makes me nervous that he might drop in all the time too. He did ask if he could stop by sometime, and I said it was a good idea to call first. We'll see what happens.
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5 Aug: I had a rather unadventurous day planned. Young and I were going to see a movie and have dinner. He came a little early, and we were having tea and talking, when there was a really loud bang. At first I thought somebody set off an extra large firecracker or something, but then I heard a woman scream. So I handed Young the phone and asked him to call the fire department and an ambulance, and ran outside to see if there was anything I could do. There wasn't of course, but what had happened was that there'd been a big explosion in the top floor of the house two doors down. There was a woman on the roof screaming, and her clothes were all torn to shreds by the explosion. There was a big hole in the wall, and glass all over the place (good thing it's Korea, or I'd have been barefoot in it). I went towards the gate to the yard, and could see a woman lying in the courtyard, with cuts all over her body. I imagine she was thrown out of the house by the force. I don't know if she was alive or not, but I saw her being carried to an ambulance a little later. Some men in orange suits showed up -- maybe firemen -- and they went into the house and carried some other people out. They didn't look too good either, but I don't know if they were alive or dead. I didn't see them get carried to ambulances. The rescue workers also helped the screaming woman down off the roof. I went back to see if Young was coming, and I think he was trying to protect me from the sight, telling me not to look. I told him it was too late. A big crowd gathered, of course, and the ambulances didn't even try to come down the road. Just as well; they probably would have ended up with flat tires. When they carried the woman to the ambulance, they didn't use a stretcher, just carried her in their arms. Young and I went back to the apartment, and I had a chance to look around here. One of the downstairs windows of my building had been blown out, and small bits of concrete or something had been forced through my screens and were all over the floor. I didn't feel scared, but my legs were shaking, and I think Young felt the same way. We didn't really feel like just sitting around talking about it, and I felt like I really needed to move around some, so we went ahead and walked to the theater. It took our minds off it a little, even though the movie that was showing was Mission Impossible 2, with lots of explosions of its own. It was a pretty bad movie, and not believable at all, so those explosions didn't bother us. I don't know exactly what caused the explosion, but I'm guessing it was fuel gas. There was a gas tank up on the roof near the hole in the wall, but I don't think that was the cause, because it looked intact. I'm hoping there'll be an article in the paper tomorrow that'll say exactly what did happen, and that Young or Mrs. Lee will tell me. In the meantime I'm eyeing my stove pretty warily. I have to admit, Korea can take care of things pretty quickly. When I got home after the movie and dinner, I went to take another look, and all the glass was cleaned up, and our broken window was taped over. They seem to have cleared a lot of the loose house pieces up, too. There are a couple of large piles of debris in the alley. On another subject, while we were eating dinner I suddenly saw a lot of white smoke on the street outside the window. I thought a car was on fire, but Young said that it was medicine to prevent disease. Now I can't see fogging an entire city with medicine, nor with disinfectant, so I suspect it was bug spray, but Young didn't think so. I've seen that one time before, when I was with Mrs. Lee, and she said it was medicine too. Is that possible, or likely, or is the government just telling people that so they won't worry? I was glad that I was in a closed building, but the people who were outside walking in it didn't seem to be trying to avoid it at all. Before all this happened I was writing postcards. They're going to sound a little odd now. " Hi. I'm having a wonderful time. The house two doors down blew up today. Wish you were here." I think I'll put them on hold for a while.
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7 Aug: Workers have been very busy cleaning up the mess from the explosion two houses down ever since it happened. I've gotten a better look at things, and it looks like the roof was split, and most of the front wall got blown out. That's just on the top floor. The windows on the lower floors were broken, and as I said, one window in my building got broken, but it doesn't look like any windows in the houses right next door were broken. A man came by the house today, and I couldn't tell what he was saying except it had something to do with gas (apparently the Korean word for gas is gas). But since it was about gas, and therefore presumably about the explosion, I figured it must be important, so I called up Mrs. Lee and asked her translate over the phone. She said he was a police officer (although he wasn't in uniform), and that he wanted to know if there was any damage here from the blast. I said no, and he went away. It turns out there isn't a Kangnung local paper, so I haven't been able to get all the details. John heard a news report on the radio, but not knowing that the site was right by my apartment, he didn't pay much attention. The most information I have came from the neighborhood beauty shop, via Mrs. Lee. Three or 4 people were taken to the hospital, but no one seems to have died. No word on what caused the explosion, and I suppose I'll never find out. Obviously gas, but why and how, I don't know.
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8 Aug: We got the results back from the competition we took the kids to. Yoo Jin got a gold medal for her speech, and Janet got a silver for hers! Nana got an honorable mention. So that's 3 out of 3 in the speaking. One of the boys got a bronze, but I don't know if that was in the listening or the writing. But I'm very pleased, and proud of the kids. People have been working diligently on the blown-up house. They're using jackhammers and sledgehammers to basically remove the top floor from the building. There are no piles of rubble around -- I think they chute it all down directly into trucks and haul it off. My 5:00 class is getting popular. Originally I had 1 student, now it's up to 9. Mrs. Kim says if it gets up to 10, we'll have a special dinner out to celebrate. Actually, I prefer it a little smaller, about 5 students. More than that and it's hard for me to keep track of them. We'll be losing one in a month, though; he just got hired for a job in Seoul. I'm very pleased for him, but will miss him. He's comfortable enough with himself and with English that he jokes around in class, which really livens things up.
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10 Aug: They're making real progress on taking down the top floor of the blown-out house. They seem to have most of the damaged parts removed. I don't know if they're going to take it all off and put roofing over the former lower floor, if they're going to take it all off and rebuild the top floor completely, or take off only the damaged parts and rebuild onto what's left. I went out for coffee with Mrs. Lee and Sun last night. We talked about Young some, but Sun really isn't interested in him at all. He's too serious. It was funny though. Did Mrs. Lee ever tell you the story about how she got her husband? She made a list, and asked God to give her a husband who had all those qualities. So when her husband came along, and she saw he matched the list, she figured she had to take him. So Mrs. Lee told Sun to make a list, and Sun did and posted it on her wall. We went through the list, and Young fit 10 out of 12 things, so we said she had to marry him. She wouldn't go for it, though. Young is waiting to fall in love at first sight, and I think Sun is too. I expect they've both got a long wait. I went out to the movies again with Young the other night. It was Shanghai Noon, a Chinese/Western comedy. I thought it was pretty funny, although I'm sure a lot of the jokes didn't translate very well. Young didn't much care for it though. No self improvement in watching it. What self improvement he got from watching Gladiator or Mission Impossible 2, I don't know. Maybe in those movies he could understand the English better. These were all in English with Korean subtitles. And they did talk fast in Shanghai noon, and sometimes with accents. Also, a fair bit wasn't in English, but was in some Indian language, or Chinese, with English subtitles.
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21 Aug: I'm just sitting here listening to music on the computer. It's a beautiful day. The sky is blue, there's sunshine and big puffy clouds, the mountains are clear enough to see the trees, and the temperature is a very comfortable 27 degrees (Celsius). This morning felt like an early autumn day, but it's warmed up enough since then that it's more like early summer. Unfortunately, that all makes it a perfect day to be shearing sheep and working in the garden, which I would really like to be doing right now. I really like the songs you picked out for me, but they do make me miss home. I suspect that was your plan. But then, I tend to play them when I already miss home a little, so they just intensify what I'm already feeling. I made my perogies last night. Couldn't eat them then, because my onions had all gone bad, so I picked some up today to make my onion butter. Now I'm wondering if it'll be possible to get sour cream to go with them. I'll have to check with Mrs. Lee. And then decide who to invite over to help me eat them. Maybe Mrs. Kim and Mrs. Lee, maybe Randy and a few of the others from the electric company. Can't be too many, I don't have that many perogies. I could make more, but it takes the best part of the day, so I'll have to wait. 2 separate dinners wouldn't be bad. In keeping with trying not to waste, I fried up the potato peels and ate them. I was hoping they'd get crispy like potato chips, but they ended up more like french fries. Really greasy french fries, because I have no paper bags, and haven't found any paper towels yet. I know they're here somewhere, because Mrs. Kim had some, but I checked again at the market across the street and didn't see any. They have tons of toilet paper, lots of kleenex, and disposable diapers, sanitary napkins, and even paper napkins. But no paper towels. Maybe I'll find them at Corex. That's a small supermarket, with groceries downstairs and misc. stuff upstairs, and that's where I found the whipping cream, so I expect it's where I'll find sour cream if there is any. You know, I do get funny ideas here sometimes. You know that things are in a major thaw between North and South Korea right now. And as part of this thaw, South Korea is sending huge shipments of chemical fertilizers to North Korea, to help them get over their famine. And of course it seems to me that North Korea would do much better to learn the latest updates on organic methods, rather than becoming dependent on expensive and harmful chemicals. If I thought for a second that it would work, I'd get Kim Jong Il a subscription to Organic Gardening magazine. The only problem is that I'm not sure it's legal to send mail from the United States to North Korea, and I strongly suspect that North Korea won't accept mail from the United States. Now if I had a third party in another country, I could have the subscription sent to them, and have them forward it to Kim Jong Il.
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25 Aug: You know, I took some of the marshmallows from the last package from home in to the kindergarteners, and they didn't like them! I gave one to John, too, and he didn't like it either! Boy, was I surprised. I thought s'mores would be fun, but Mrs. Lee says there are no graham crackers here. So I guess I'll get some cereal and make some version of marshmallow treats. There's no sour cream, either, so the perogies aren't nearly as good as they ought to be.
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26 Aug: Since plain marshmallows didn't go over real well, and I can't get graham crackers for s'mores, I bought some cereal and made Rice Krispies treats. Except I couldn't find Rice Krispies, so I used Cocoa Krispies instead. The cereals here are all American brands, but it's a rather limited selection. There were maybe a dozen to choose from. All the sweet sugary kind, even ones you wouldn't think would be. Do we have Banana Chex and Chocolate Chex in America? I expect the marshmallow treats will go over pretty well, but since it's just Saturday morning, I don't know if they'll last until Monday. I'll try to be good ... My US friend Lorrie sent me a web site, foodtv.com, which has some Korean recipes on it right now. I'm trying to find some interesting veggie recipes. Kimchi's all well and good, but I'd like to have a little variety. And that last kimchi I bought turned out to be downright vorpal, so I can't eat much at one time. The advantages to that are that it will be longer before I have to buy kimchi again, and that regular kimchi won't seem hot to me at all after this.
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27 Aug: Young came over again yesterday. I had brought home Scrabble from the hagwon just in case, so we would actually have something to do. I had a pretty good time, and I think Young did too, although it was a lot harder for him than for me, and I beat him by a hundred points. Randy signed up for the 8:00 class at the hagwon, both to get more practice with English and to meet girls. Unfortunately there's only one single girl in that class, Carol, and she's older than he is. But all the girls in the 7:00 class are too young for him, so he really loses either way. I went grocery shopping downtown in the rain. Had a wonderful time and got soaked. I was trying to find the knitting shop I went to once, but couldn't, so I finally gave up and came home. It's raining again today. I remember when Ohio was like this! Not much else happening. Practiced my netting some, checked out a couple of fiber web sites that Emma told me about, did some dishes. Life is dull without my animals. I also went to a movie and to Be and Be coffee shop with Young. We saw The Patriot. It left a lot to be desired -- the movie, I mean, not Be and Be.
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29 Aug: I'm not the oldest any more! I've got some new students in the 7:00 class, and one is 43 and one is 51. Another is 28 and single, so she might be someone Randy would want to meet. Chris, who is Christina's younger brother, is much older than I thought. I thought he was in his teens, and it turns out he's 25. It was pretty funny in class. The topic was family, and for practice we were asking about each other, and families and friends. The girls were really interested in people's brothers and sons, and Chris (the only boy left in the class) was interested in the girls and their sisters and friends. "How old? Is he/she married? Boyfriend or girlfriend?" All the important questions. The 51 year old lady was asking Chris questions the first time around. "Are you married? Why not?" Apparently the polite thing to do while asking and answering these questions is to giggle, and we were giggling our heads off, so I dare say it was a successful class.
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